Extrovert Feeling Amongst People

Extrovert Sensing

Hi!  Yep right in front of you!

Cannot be more obvious than that.

The extrovert feeling has caused some awkward moments for sure but can make you feel welcomed as you walk in an unfamiliar place.

Do you want to be noticed?  Just find these individuals who have cheerful vibes bouncing off of them with a focus on making you feel comfortable and right at home, there you will find an extrovert feeler.

Although in an INFJ, the extrovert feeling is kind of tricky.  It’s almost as if there is an on and off mode.  The on mode is when they feel comfortable, knowledgeable and most aware of their surroundings, and making you feel the best about your self and the situation.  You should be able to find a light-hearted vibe.

The off mode is used to gain insight and information to one’s mind and that is where they pick up on individual clues about that person.  The informative and/or critical INFJ is a story to be told another time.

Extrovert feeling loves to go out of their way to make a special person feel cared for and this is the positive side of this function.  The down side to this function is that the user would love for the feelings to be reciprocated.  The user understands that most people do not have the same abilities but a simple acknowledgment goes a long way in the user’s heart.

If you want that person who made you feel welcomed, loved or cared for to continue their giving behavior, acknowledgment is much needed to make our heart happy.

The INFJ can also use extraverted feeling to self-express in writing, art, poetry, music, and fashion to name a few.  If the extrovert feeling is not accessed and an extrovert function is not used to help us understand how we feel we can fall into self-doubt and become oppressed.  This is where that song “Lean on me” comes in handy.  Personally, for me, I can play this song and it instantly cheers me up and makes me remember that “We all need somebody to lean on.”  If you haven’t heard this song in a while go search for it!

It seems like the world lacks extrovert feeling so if you have this function GO SHINE the world needs your kindness!


A Whisper To My Guide


Dear Introvert Intuition,

Who are you?  Why do I feel as if I am chasing you and yet you are right here?

I feel as though I will always never fully get to know you and you are always ever changing.  You seek truth and you are always there, always on.  You leave me confused and amazed at the same time.

Where are you going?  Where are you taking me?

Everything is so unexpected and that is kinda scary.  Is that why I am afraid to surround myself with people because I don’t know if you will say something so unexpected and people will view me as odd?

“As a child, I felt myself to be alone, and I am still, becauseI know things and must hint at things which others apparently know nothing of, and for the most part do not want to know.” -Carl Jung

You and I are friends and maybe the only companion I have most of the time.  I know you will choose the right precise path for me, but will you stop giving me so many ideas and simultaneous confidence so that I may focus on a few?  I want to say ‘YES I can do that!’ and be more useful and exceptional at a few things at a time.

Will you help me focus on activities that will excel my psyche and my family?  Will you help me to not gain so much insight into situations that I do not need to be involved in?

Lead my way and make me healthier, wiser, more loving.  I do not want to be filled with turbulent passion because I’m so impetuous in spirit.

I want to be the perfect wife to my husband and greatest mother to my children.  I want people to appreciate and welcome my personality, for this is who you make me.  I want to be illustrious and not veiled.

Let me show my merit through my words and actions.  Give me insight and let me come alive, let my words and energy be a blessing and give inspiration.